How on earth are you ever going to explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love?

The conceptual symbol? Is it just a conceptual symbol? a "concept"? or does it really exist? What is a concept? and what ideas do we have of this individual "concept"..is it even one at all, maybe just an idea or dream?
I guess thats something that we are always asking, wondering, thinking about,pondering,presuming that it doesnt,waiting for it to happy,hoping for,asking for and sometimes indeed praying for....its something that we an inquisitive about,amazed by, speculative about and indeed curious about this one concept that rarely shows itself...we dont see things as they are, we see them as we are.. are we wise to do that? The risk it takes to remain tight inside the bud is more painful than the risk it tasks to blossom, One word frees us of all the weight and pain in life, that word is Love.

"Perfect love is rare indeed -
for to be a lover will require that you continually
have the subtlety of the very wise,
the flexibility of the child, the sensitivity of the artist,
the understanding of the philosopher, the acceptance of the saint,
the tolerance of the scholar and the fortitude of the certain."